Hola! Bon jour! Orana! Yes, that one is real, pronounced yo-rah-nah in French Polynesia (think Tahiti and Bora Bora).
Welcome to my blog, the part time expat. Why only part time? I’ll explain as I go.
I’m a midwestern gal from the small town of Cloverdale, Indiana, about one hour west of Indianapolis. I love where I came from, so much that I built a home and raised my own children on the very farm where I grew up. But I have learned through my 57 years on this planet (Did I call myself a”gal”? OK, old lady) that loving where you are and possessing wanderlust can and do co-exist.
My husband and I spend half of our time in San Jose del Cabo, Mexico and half in our hometown in the US. Some of our closest friends are in SJD. These friends tell us “welcome home” when we arrive in Cabo. I have to admit, it is an amazing thing to hear. But likewise, it is amazing to come “home” to the states and spend time with my family on our farm in Indiana. We can enjoy beautiful, crisp midwestern fall weather, snow (STILL not my favorite!) and celebrate the holidays with our three children, two grandchildren, all the significant others, and our parents, all of whom, blessedly, are alive and well and live nearby.
We have received some criticism for not being “all in” on the living abroad thing. But to dispel this, we have become permanent residents of Mexico (not renouncing our US citizenship), we volunteer with several local charities and organizations in the Cabo area, and we own a home and vehicle in Mexico, meaning, just like in the US, we pay taxes and contribute to the local economy. But the best part is getting to know the Mexican people, learning the language (not easy at our age!) and enjoying the amazing culture of the Baja.
The purpose of this blog is to highlight travel experiences that I have been blessed to enjoy, in Mexico and in other parts of the world. I also hope to include travel experiences from others. But mostly, I want to demonstrate that when it comes to travel vs.non-travel, you really can have it all!
If you like mountain and ocean views, or better yet the two at the same time, the drive into Loreto does not disappoint! Loreto itself doesn’t disappoint. I love this town! Known mostly for its sports fishing, Loreto has a small-town vibe with tons of Mexican charm. The vendors in the shops are friendly; I even returned a purse with a broken zipper and was given a replacement, no questions asked.
We passed some luxury resorts featuring golf courses and ocean view pools. But we chose to stay in town. Loreto 80 offers studio apartments at a reasonable price. We were ready to cook at home for a few meals, and found a grocery with young entrepreneurs selling fresh strawberries and asparagus out front, and fresh seafood inside for a yummy meal.
But even though dinner was at “home” we still took advantage of the “night life” in Loreto. By night life, at my age, I mean the evening in the town square! As with many Mexican towns, the streets come alive with artisans and musicians. There is an energy on the main street that does not exist during the day. Locals and tourists visit restaurants, bars, shops, and pop-up vendors. Our second evening there was International Women’s Day, and a parade and speeches were a part of the celebration.
The streets are lined with arching trees that form a canopy when walking around Loreto. This enhances the already existing beauty of the town. At the end of the main walk sits Spa Las Flores Loreto, where I enjoyed a massage and facial.
Loreto sports some non-crowded beaches and a great Malecón (another run completed!). Really happy that this will be another stop on the way back through!
Misión de Nuestra Señora de Loreto ConchóLoreto 80 Studio RentalsBeach on a Saturday monringDriving into Loreto after miles of mountains and cactus.First pic at Loreto overlookPre-dinner libation!
Next stop on our Baja road trip was Cuidad (city of) Constitución. This area of the Baja is more agricultural than Cabo. It was exciting to see the landscape change from deserts (which I do love!) to green fields and groves of orange trees. Even if you are just passing through, you can stop at a roadside stand and buy a large bag of oranges for $6 US. We enjoyed and shared these throughout our trip.
Lunch was Taqueria Los Perrones on the main street, which served up some of the best pastor (pork) tacos I have ever had. We also visited Puerto San Carlos, which is home to the beautiful Magdalena Bay. Despite unseasonal chilly temperatures, this beach was enjoyable and sported some in tact seashells, which are not always common on Mexican beaches.
Magdalena BayVisitor!
Upon a recommendation from friends, we stayed at theMaría de Nadie Hotel Boutique. This is what is known today as a boutique hotel but reminded me of the family run hotels I remember staying at as a kid in the States, super clean and comfy with a good restaurant. We enjoyed both dinner and breakfast there, and the food and service were phenomenal. Even better was their story. As we headed to the restaurant for our dinner that evening, four people were finishing their meal. Their conversation and early dinner hour led us to believe that they were workers, enjoying their dinner break before the guests. One of the gentlemen approached us and asked us what room we were staying in. We told him, and he responded with “that was my parents’ room when I was growing up here.”. He proceeded to share with us that this was a family owned/operated hotel in which he and his siblings grew up. When his parents retired, the hotel sat empty, as he and his siblings were away at university. They decided to return and re-open the hotel to preserve it. So glad they did!
Getting back to that road trip…we started our journey in LaPaz, which is only about 2 hours north of San Jose del Cabo. We were particularly blessed as two of our good friends from SJD joined us for this first stretch. Along the way, we stopped in Todos Santos. If you have never visited Todos Santos, it is definitely worth the trip. Along with the famous Hotel California, there is a historic church and an artistic vibe to the town. The Green Room, a gorgeous waterfront restaurant outside of the main square, serves amazing food and drinks. I have also seen some of my best impromptu whale shows there during the spring months while sipping a carajillo.
But our focus today was on Viñedo Las Tinajas, a beautiful winery just before you reach the main square of Todo Santos. Upon arrival, we were given a refreshing vino blanco to enjoy while we toured the wine making room. Our guide was knowledgeable about the finer points of winemaking and not only studied wine making at UC Davis in California, but also taught some of the classes there as an undergrad student. He served us a tinto (red) straight out of the barrel; doesn’t get any fresher!
Viñedo Las TinajasFresh vino tinto!
We then went into the tasting room for a complete tasting and charcuterie board. I purchased a few bottles of the welcome wine (my favorite!) and even stopped on the way back through to get a few more. If you are anywhere in the Cabo area, this is a great day trip. As for us, we were headed to La Paz!
La Paz is home to Balandra Beach, truly one of the most beautiful I have seen in my life. Had I not visited the Tahiti/Bora Bora beaches in the past, it could easily be number one. We spent a lovely afternoon there. This beach is protected and only a certain number of visitors are let in each day. It is worth the wait to enjoy its natural beauty and the warm, shallow, lagoon like waters.
We stayed at Casa Madero, a small boutique hotel with a shared kitchen and gorgeous courtyard. We were only one block from the malecon, a walkway along the water that encourages biking, walking, jogging, or just strolling along to see the sights. I took advantage of an early morning jog on our second day, which I needed after all of the good food we had been enjoying.
Balandra BeachSunset over the MaleconHistoric church
I thoroughly enjoyed this stretch of the trip. The combination of sightseeing, spending time with friends, beautiful scenery, and a cozy boutique hotel made this the perfect start to our road trip. Next stop coming soon!
Hola, mis amigos! It’s been awhile since I posted, but not from lack of planning and writing. My husband and I are starting a road trip around Baja Sur. Many of our friends have driven to our home in San Jose del Cabo multiple times, and I am curious to see the rest of this beautiful landscape. However, most of these friends live in California, Colorado, or the west coast of Canada. Being from Indiana, just getting to the border is a challenge at 22 hours of car time. A few friends then encouraged me to start at SJD and just road trip the Baja.
So that is what we decided to do this March in the height of whale season! We also have decided to limit our first journey to the Baja Sur and save the Norte for another adventure. We know that this will limit what we will see of the Baja, but feel like we need to start small. The last few months have been the fun part for me…planning a trip! Many conversations with SJD friends and hours online finding the best places to stay, see, and of course eat! So adios, vaya con Dios, and stay tuned for updates from the part-time expat’s epic road trip. Lots of pictures and adventures coming soon!
One of the many things we love about Viva is that we are a mostly American/Canadian community, and we can speak in our native tongue. But when we venture outside the Viva gate…that may be a different story.
SJD continues to have a strong Gringo presence, and most of our Mexican neighbors also speak English. This is super convenient, but about two years ago, I decided to step outside of my comfort zone and at least attempt to learn the local language. Not brush up, but learn! Other than Duo Lingo (the free version!) I had never attempted to learn Spanish, having taken French YEARS ago in high school (Comment allez-vous?). But when a local Mexican friend of mine, who obviously speaks Spanish and English, said she was taking French lessons online via Zoom, I was intrigued. I reached out to her maestro, Mario, and set up Spanish lessons for old beginners (my term, not his!).
All this time later, still not fluent, but getting a little braver with at least attempting the local language. I find that most locals are kind and willing to help when I am struggling. I often apologize for my poor Spanish, but try not to automatically revert to English when outside of Viva. Also, this is great for me in retirement, to stretch my mind and try something new. Mario has become an amazing mentor and friend, as well as a positive role model. He also teaches German and is currently learning Italian, Russian, and Chinese. So… using him as inspiration, maybe I can pick up a little more Español!
You sang it, didn’t you? I hope that anyone who reads this has had a fabulous holiday season, celebrating in any style that makes you happy! We spent Thanksgiving and Christmas in Indiana and enjoyed some much-needed time with friends and family. For the new year, we have returned to our second home in Cabo and plan to ring in the new year on the 31st with friends here.
Before heading south, we spent some time packing up all the decorations so we would not have that task ahead of us when we return. So the house, as all houses this time of year, looked a little bleak when we were preparing for our trip. I always miss the festive feel of the lights, trees, stockings, etc. That is why it makes me so happy that in Cabo, it is tradition to leave Christmas decorations up until January 6, which is when they celebrate King’s Day, or Dia de los Reyes Magos. This day honors the Three Wise Men who brought gifts to Baby Jesus, so Mexicans exchange gifts. They also bake or buy a sweet bread called Rosca de Reyes. Inside is a small plastic replica of Baby Jesus, and whoever gets the baby in their slice of cake hosts yet another party (surprise!) on February 2 to make and serve tamales. If you have ever handmade tamales, you know that this is no easy task!
As usual, Mexicans have found a way to get the most out the holiday season! This is a culture with rich traditions and many celebrations. Once again, I enter the New Year feeling blessed that I am included in so many of these as a part-time expat. I hope 2025 finds you and your loved ones happy, healthy, and counting your many blessings!
San José del Cabo, nestled at the southern tip of the Baja California Peninsula, is a hidden gem known for its stunning beaches, desert landscapes, and rugged mountains. It’s a place where natural beauty meets small-town charm, attracting travelers and expats from around the globe. One common question, however, arises: Is San José del Cabo safe?
The short answer is yes. With a strong local community, a growing expat presence, and increasing efforts to ensure safety, San José del Cabo is not only breathtaking but also a safe haven for those seeking a laid-back lifestyle. Let’s explore why this vibrant town is worth the visit—and possibly the move.
1. A Safe Oasis in Baja California Sur
While some parts of Mexico are known for safety concerns, Baja California Sur, home to San José del Cabo, consistently ranks among the safest states in the country. Crime rates here are relatively low, especially in tourist-friendly areas and expat communities. The Mexican government has invested in maintaining this reputation, prioritizing the safety of popular destinations like Los Cabos.
San José del Cabo is quieter and more relaxed compared to its neighbor, Cabo San Lucas. Its colonial charm, friendly locals, and tight-knit expat community make it an ideal spot for families, solo travelers, and retirees.
Tips for Staying Safe:
• Stick to well-traveled areas, especially in the historic downtown and beachfront zones.
• Be mindful of petty crimes, like pickpocketing, which are rare but possible in any tourist destination.
San José del Cabo is unique in offering the trifecta of beaches, mountains, and desert—all in one stunning location. Whether you’re into surfing, hiking, or simply soaking up the sun, there’s something for everyone.
Beaches
The turquoise waters of the Sea of Cortez provide a serene escape. Playa Palmilla and Playa Costa Azul are two popular options, with calm waters perfect for swimming or paddle boarding. Surfers flock to Zippers Beach for its consistent waves.
Mountains
For those craving adventure, the Sierra de la Laguna mountains offer excellent hiking trails, waterfalls, and breathtaking views. These mountain ranges add to the region’s diverse ecosystem, blending rugged terrain with lush greenery.
Desert
The surrounding desert landscapes provide opportunities for off-road adventures, horseback riding, and camel tours. The stark contrast between the arid desert and the vibrant blue ocean makes for an unforgettable visual experience.
3. A Thriving Expat and Traveler Community
San José del Cabo has become a hub for expats and digital nomads seeking a slower pace of life without sacrificing modern amenities. The town’s international community adds to its welcoming vibe.
Why Expats Love San José del Cabo
• Accessibility: Direct flights to major U.S. and Canadian cities make it easy to visit or relocate.
• Amenities: From high-quality healthcare to gourmet restaurants and international schools, the town caters to diverse needs.
• Affordability: While not the cheapest destination in Mexico, the cost of living is still lower than in most North American cities.
Expats often highlight the strong sense of community, where locals and foreigners come together to celebrate festivals, enjoy farmers’ markets, and participate in beach clean-ups.
4. The Charm of San José del Cabo
Beyond its natural beauty, San José del Cabo is known for its rich culture and arts scene. The historic downtown features cobblestone streets, colorful buildings, and a vibrant central plaza. The weekly Art Walk, held every Thursday evening from November to June, showcases local talent and transforms the town into a cultural hotspot.
Food lovers will find an abundance of fresh seafood and traditional Mexican cuisine. From street tacos to fine dining, San José del Cabo has something to satisfy every palate.
5. Safety Tips for Living and Traveling in San José del Cabo
While San José del Cabo is generally safe, here are some tips to ensure a worry-free experience:
• Stay Informed: Keep up with local news and travel advisories.
• Blend In: Respect the local culture and dress modestly in non-tourist areas.
• Be Cautious at Night: Stick to well-lit areas, especially if traveling solo.
• Emergency Contacts: Save local emergency numbers and know the location of your country’s consulate.
Conclusion: Your Safe Haven in Paradise
San José del Cabo is more than just a picturesque destination; it’s a safe, welcoming, and enriching place for travelers and expats alike. From the sparkling beaches to the dramatic desert and mountains, this charming Mexican town offers the perfect blend of relaxation and adventure.
Whether you’re visiting for a week or planning a permanent move, San José del Cabo promises an unforgettable experience—one where safety and serenity go hand in hand.
Is there any better way to spend a day in Cabo than sunning on its glorious beaches? It might surprise you to learn that my answer is YES; spending time volunteering for Feeding Los Cabos Kids!
This amazing foundation was started in 2004 and works to feed the local children in the colonias (neighborhoods). They have partnered with local churches and pastors to build kitchens in the neighborhoods where families can come for a meal.
In our condominium complex in San Jose del Cabo, there is a group that volunteers to take and serve meals to the kitchens. So last week, instead of hitting the beaches with a good book, I volunteered to help. This is the second time I have made a trip to a local kitchen, and it was just as rewarding as the first. After prepping 100 hotdogs, we packed up and headed out to the kitchens with our coolers of goodies for the families. The kindhearted people I went with also ensured that we had stickers and candy for the children. For a while, I was the most popular person in the place as I was serving sandía (watermelon), which is always a big hit.
As a former teacher, I still miss working with kids and I admit that this gives me a good “kid fix”. But it also makes me so happy that the complex where we live has set a precedent of helping the local community. If you would like to help Feeding Kids Los Cabos for Giving Tuesday (or any time!) please utilize the link below.
The past week has been a busy one, celebrating different holidays in San Jose. I was so excited for Halloween and Day of the Dead, especially because we had our daughter and future son in law here in Mexico with us. We prepared bags of candy and glow in the dark bracelets to hand out on the square to the adorable little ones (and some not so little, which I love…I like to see tweens and teens trick or treating!).
Then on to El Dia de Muertos. We toured the cemetery and watched the parade of the Katrinas. So much work being done in the cemetery as the families utilize this day to clean, decorate, and often play music at the alters of their loved ones who have passed. The second day has a more festive air, with parades and celebrations in the city center.
I often question, as a visitor to this amazing culture, if the locals find it intrusive when we attend their traditional celebrations. I am always respectful of families’ privacy and keep my distance while visiting the cemetery, and try to observe on the outskirts. However, I have had many locals ask if I have visited their cemeteries and traditional celebrations, and they seem eager to share their cultural traditions.
This made a little more sense to me this year, when I saw how much fun the kids were having on Halloween (a very American holiday!). They liked saying “trick-or-treat”, “Happy Halloween”, and “thank you” in English. It made me so happy to see this fun holiday in another country. Taking it a step further, the entire weekend was a blending of traditions and cultures from two countries. It love this, especially with the events of the past week in the US. A small thing to see two cultures co-existing, but maybe a positive step none the less?
San Jose del Cabo, nestled at the tip of the Baja California Peninsula, is not just a tropical paradise; it’s a haven for art enthusiasts. One of the town’s cultural gems is the weekly Art Walk, a captivating event that transforms the historic downtown into a lively celebration of creativity. Join us as we embark on a journey through the enchanting world of San Jose del Cabo’s Art Walk.
A Kaleidoscope of Galleries:
The heart of the Art Walk lies in its diverse array of galleries, each offering a unique perspective on the artistic landscape. From contemporary art spaces to traditional galleries, visitors can immerse themselves in a kaleidoscope of colors, shapes, and emotions. Notable venues like [Gallery Name] and [Another Gallery] open their doors to showcase the works of both local and international talents.
Meet the Visionaries:
One of the highlights of the Art Walk is the opportunity to connect with visionary artists shaping the cultural narrative of San Jose del Cabo. Engage in conversations with painters, sculptors, and artisans as they share the inspirations behind their masterpieces. Discover the stories that breathe life into each stroke of the brush and every carefully crafted sculpture.
Culinary Delights Amidst Art:
The Art Walk isn’t just a visual feast; it’s a culinary adventure as well. Many restaurants and cafes along the route join in the celebration, offering delightful gastronomic experiences. Savor the fusion of art and flavor as you explore the local cuisine, with some establishments even hosting special events and tastings during the Art Walk.
Embracing Cultural Riches:
San Jose del Cabo’s rich cultural tapestry is intricately woven into the fabric of the Art Walk. From traditional Mexican influences to contemporary expressions, the event mirrors the town’s diverse heritage. Dive into the cultural significance of the artwork and witness how local traditions seamlessly blend with modern artistic interpretations.
A Community Affair:
More than just an artistic showcase, the Art Walk fosters a sense of community. Experience the warm hospitality of the locals as you stroll through the streets filled with laughter, music, and a shared appreciation for creativity. The event is a melting pot of cultures, where residents and visitors alike come together to celebrate the arts.
Practical Tips for the Art Walk:
Timing: The Art Walk typically takes place on Thursday evenings from November to June.
Navigation: Wear comfortable shoes for a leisurely stroll through the downtown area.
Interaction: Don’t hesitate to engage with artists and fellow art enthusiasts; the event thrives on community connections.
Transportation: Consider local transportation options, and be mindful of parking availability.
San Jose del Cabo’s Art Walk is more than an event; it’s a sensory journey through the heart and soul of a community deeply connected to its artistic roots. Immerse yourself in this enchanting experience, where the streets come alive with creativity, and every corner tells a story waiting to be discovered. you can learn more here.
