Part-time Expat-El Dia de Muertos

Part-time Expat-El Dia de Muertos

El Dia de Muertos, or the Day of the Dead, was celebrated in San Jose del Cabo this weekend.  Beginning with tours of the cemetery on November 1 through the parade of the Katrinas on the evening of November 2, this holiday is rooted in strong tradition and respect for those who have passed from this world.  So much work is done in the cemetery as the families utilize this day to clean, decorate, and often play music at the alters of their loved ones who have passed.  The second day has a more festive air, with parades and celebrations in the city center. 

There are colorful altars throughout the town, displaying the ofrendas adorned with photos and memories of loved ones.  It is a true celebration of life and has its roots in the traditions of Aztec and Spanish Catholic cultures. Adding to the splendor of this celebration are calaveras (decorative skulls) and marigold flowers, which are believed to guide the spirits with their fragrance and bright color.

While El Dia de Muertos is not widely celebrated in the United States, as we become a more global society, the blending of traditions of various cultures is inevitable. We now recognize holidays that we did not in the past and demonstrate respect to those who have always celebrated them.  As a former school administrator, I personally have observed public school art teachers who were teaching about El Dia de Muertos, and the beauty that lies within this colorful holiday.  Students were excited to learn more! 

So while Coco remains one of my favorite Disney movies, there is still nothing like experiencing El Dia de Muertos in person in Mexico!

Part-time Expat-Cabo Pulmo

Part-time Expat-Cabo Pulmo

One of my favorite water sports is snorkeling.  I have been fortunate to snorkel in Mexico, Bora Bora, and Hawaii. So far, I haven’t taken the steps to become a SCUBA diver, but there is still time! The beauty that lies beneath the ocean’s surface is exquisite. 

This week we snorkeled Cabo Pulmo National Marine Park. This contains the oldest living reef in North America and is also home to sea turtles, whale sharks, dolphins, and manta rays. We were blessed to experience the beauty of the coral, in addition to sea turtles, sea lions, and varieties of fish.  We watched a school of silver fish spiral in a tornado-like manner, reminiscent of a synchronized swimming show. 

Cabo Pulmo is a small village and there are several choices of water sports vendors.  I personally recommend Cabo Pulmo Eco Adventures.  We have gone out with them twice now, and both times had an amazing snorkeling experience.  Caesar was our guide for both trips, and he is professional, personable, and was willing to tailor the trip to our wishes. 

Even though Caesar and his team provide you with snacks, you will likely want to check out the restaurant Tacos and Beer across from Eco Adventures after your snorkeling adventure.  They serve, well, tacos and beer, but also other menu items.

This has been one of our favorite day trips for two years running.  Can’t wait to make it three!

Part-time Expat-Beaches and Butterflies

Part-time Expat-Beaches and Butterflies

Hola!  It’s been a while since I have added a post to the Part-time Expat blog.  No traveling this summer due to la boda de mi hija (my daughter’s wedding), but it has been a wonderful summer leading up to a celebration day of love, good friends, and family.  And of course, she was a beautiful bride!

Now that the festivities are over, we are back in Cabo.  We often spend the early part of September here, but this year we came a little later.  As a bonus, that’s when the butterflies arrive!

It is hard to describe and even harder to photograph how beautiful these massive hordes of butterflies are.  We see constant flocks of them flying around, mostly in the morning.  These are not the Monarchs, which migrate to Central Mexico, but the Cloudless Sulphers, also known as Phoebis sennae, or as I prefer, “little yellow” butterflies! Apparently, they migrate south during the rainy season due to changes in the vegetation. They travel from the mountains in search of warmer climates. Just one more layer to the beauty of San Jose del Cabo!

While we have seen many butterflies, not necessarily the same is true of travelers.  This is the low season for travel in Cabo, and some of our favorite restaurants and stores are closed this month for vacations.  That’s fine; there is just a little different vibe here right now, and we all know that the cold weather up north will bring the snowbirds flying down here soon!   In the meantime, I plan to do some snorkeling (this might be the next blog post topic) and relax on my porch enjoying the beaches and butterflies!

A Day in a Viva Condo: Live, Work, Relax

A Day in a Viva Condo: Live, Work, Relax

Welcome to Viva Condo #7—where every day begins with beauty and ends in bliss.
Nestled along the sparkling Sea of Cortez in San José del Cabo, Viva offers the kind of lifestyle most only dream about. Whether you’re working remotely, soaking in the sun, or simply embracing the rhythm of coastal living, Viva is your sanctuary for balance, connection, and joy.


☀️ Morning Magic: Sunrise & Serenity

There’s no better way to start your day than with a cup of coffee on the patio of Condo #7, watching the sunrise paint the sky with hues of gold and coral. For an even more breathtaking view, stroll down to the beach and witness the sun emerging from the horizon over the Sea of Cortez—a scene you’ll never tire of.

Want something sweet with that coffee? Take a short walk to La Comer and grab a warm, flaky pastry from their fabulous bakery. The morning is yours—peaceful, flavorful, and full of promise.


🧘‍♂️ Move or Motivate: Your Morning, Your Way

Once you’ve eased into the day, it’s time to energize. Viva supports every kind of morning routine:

  • 💻 Work from home in a quiet, inspiring space with strong Wi-Fi and natural light.
  • 🏃‍♀️ Run through San José del Cabo, where colorful streets and ocean breezes keep you moving.
  • 👣 Walk or jog along the beach, with sand between your toes and the rhythm of waves as your soundtrack.
  • 💪 Hit the gym at the nearby Vidanta Golf Course.
  • 🏊 Swim laps in Viva’s heated pool or stretch out with a poolside workout.
  • 🎾 Join a game of pickleball or tennis on Viva’s on-site courts—great for fitness and community.

🌮 Midday Delights: Food, Friends, and Freedom

When lunchtime rolls around, Cabo delivers. Walk to nearby taquerías for authentic Mexican street food, or cook up something delicious in your own fully equipped kitchen. With perfect weather year-round, dining indoors or al fresco is always a treat.

Afterward, it’s time to recharge. Some residents head back to work, while others ease into relaxation mode. Common afternoon rituals include:

  • 📖 Lounging by the pool with a good book
  • 🌊 Watching the waves and drifting into a seaside nap
  • 🎲 Playing board games with neighbors and new friends
  • 👣 Taking a casual stroll on the beach or around town

🍹 Golden Hour & Evenings to Remember

As the day winds down, the community at Viva comes alive again. Late afternoons are lovingly referred to as “Happy Hour”—a time when owners, renters, expats, and newcomers gather around the BBQ area to socialize and enjoy the warm Cabo breeze. Everyone is welcome, and everyone feels at home.

Evenings unfold with endless options:

  • 🍖 Fire up the grill for dinner with friends
  • 🍝 Walk to local restaurants, from low-key taco joints to upscale seafood, Italian, and steakhouses
  • 🌌 Wind down on your private patio, taking in the peaceful quiet of the evening, with the gentle sounds of laughter and conversation drifting up from the beach as locals and visitors enjoy the last light of day

🌅 Wake, Repeat, Enjoy

At Viva Condo, each day is yours to design. Whether you’re here for a season or forever, the blend of comfort, community, and coastal magic creates an experience unlike any other.

👉 Ready to live, work, and relax the Viva way?
Visit VivaCondominium.com to learn more and schedule a visit. Your Cabo story starts here.

Part-time Expat-First Time in Cabo?

Part-time Expat-First Time in Cabo?

I have found that this phrase, “First time in Cabo?” is a frequent one spoken by the locals in the service professions.  I have been asked this by countless cab drivers, time share salespeople, and shop keepers throughout the years.  Guess I still do not look like a local!

I’m sure that this is a common ice breaker around the world.  As I have moved from answering, “Yes”, to “First visit in a long time”, to “I live here part time,” I have witnessed various reactions.  The first two answers elicit recommendations for restaurants, the best beaches, and discounts for tours.  Once you say you live here part time, the timeshare salespeople walk away in search of new potential clients, and most others do not share their recommendations.  So I started asking!

There is no better way to get to know a new place than to talk to the locals.  And I think that when you share that you are in their home year-round, or even part time, like us, you get some recommendations beyond the tourist traps.  This requires some stepping out of my comfort zone.  If you haven’t read before, I was a shy kid and remain an introvert (as they call us now!) so I struggle to initiate conversation.  Throw in a language barrier, and I am even more reluctant to engage. But I continue to force myself for three reasons:  1.  The benefits far outweigh the risks.  I have learned so much about our new home by talking with local people.  2.  This is the best way to practice and continue to learn Spanish.  3. Casual conversation is much more expected in Mexico than in the US.  The people are friendly and assume that you will exchange the occasional “buenos dias” and “como esta? “ It is also customary to wish strangers “provecho” (enjoy your meal) when passing by their table in a restaurant. These are just a few of the customs I have noted, and I have much to learn.  So, “First time in Cabo?”  “No, but more importantly, it won’t be my last”!

Beyond the Expat Bubble: Discovering the Heart of San José del Cabo Through Local Friendships

Beyond the Expat Bubble: Discovering the Heart of San José del Cabo Through Local Friendships

One of the most defining choices you face as an expat or long-term visitor in San José del Cabo is how you decide to experience your new environment. Do you stay nestled within the familiarity of your expat community—comfortable, safe, and full of shared backgrounds and languages? Or do you venture out, step into the unknown, and allow your experience to be shaped by genuine connections with the locals who call this place home?

Over time, we’ve come to learn that there’s something incredibly special about choosing the latter.

We’ve been fortunate to meet wonderful people here—many of whom came into our lives initially as service providers: a warm and talkative driver, a kind gardener, a Spanish tutor, a restaurant owner, a fishing captain, a tequila catador, or even a helpful physical therapist. But in many cases, those first interactions sparked conversations, and those conversations grew into friendships. These aren’t transactional relationships. They’re rooted in mutual respect, shared stories, and laughter over meals, sunsets, and everyday life.

These local friendships have opened up San José del Cabo to us in ways we never could have imagined. We’ve been taken to tucked-away beaches, hidden eateries, local festivals, and special spots that don’t show up on TripAdvisor. Often, friends ask us, “How did you find that place?” The answer is simple: we were willing to trust, to say yes, and to step outside of the comfort zone of our expat circle.

Of course, the expat community can be a source of deep friendship and support—it’s one of the great joys of living abroad. But it’s equally enriching to cultivate connections with the people who grew up here, whose lives and stories are rooted in this land. These friendships give depth to our experience and help us develop a deeper appreciation for the rich culture, history, and everyday beauty of Los Cabos.

Being an expat isn’t just about finding a new place to live—it’s about letting a new place live within you. That only happens when you open yourself to new people, perspectives, and ways of life.

So if you’re considering life in San José del Cabo—or are already here—take a moment to look beyond your circle. Say hello to your Uber driver. Strike up a conversation with the barista. Ask your gardener where he likes to eat. The door to a fuller, richer experience might just be waiting in that first conversation.

Because while the beaches and sunshine brought us here, it’s the people—especially the unexpected friendships—that make it feel like home. If you want to visit our second home check out our condo for rent at http://vivacondominium.com.

Part-time Expat-Exercise

Part-time Expat-Exercise

In my last blog, I tackled the topic of “ordinary” tasks of the expat life.  One of these, at least for most of us, is exercise.  Whatever it looks like for you, exercise is a part of most of our lives in 2025.

For me, this involves four days a week of running and lifting, two of walking, and one “rest day” with yoga and maybe a light walk. To define further, “running” at age 57 might look more like a slow jog, and “lifting” is usually some resistance for the arms and legs. But an “E” for effort goes a long way and is better than nothing (or so I tell myself!).

At home in the States, exercise is mostly done in my basement workout room, or maybe outside if it is a beautiful day to walk.  But in my 425 sq.ft. condo in Mexico, there is not an exercise room.  Nor is there a fitness center in our complex, because it is not a resort, but rather small apartments with only limited amenities. So I had two choices:  not exercise for the months that I am in Mexico, or get creative.  I chose the latter!

I began by running outside, which sounded like a logical choice.  I also purchased some small hand weights and a yoga mat.  Luckily, the same yoga videos I access at home via YouTube are available here, (Yoga with Kassandra are great ones!) so that part was easy.  However, I soon found that there were a few issues with jogging outside in San Jose del Cabo.  Not to say that this was a totally negative experience;  the scenery is beautiful and the city has provided lovely jogging/biking paths in our area.  For awhile, this seemed like the perfect solution.  But then…summer came, and that beautiful Baja sun was beating down on me by 7:00 am.  As a non-morning person, this was the first glitch in my morning run, which I usually didn’t start until 9:00-10:00 am.  It became a fine line of starting a run in the dark and finishing before the sun was too hot.  Also, while the hills and mountains of Mexico are gorgeous to look at, the terrain proved to be challenging for a runner of my age. 

So I joined a gym.  The Vidanta gym in San Jose del Cabo is amazing and has given me the opportunity to use their cardio equipment, resistance machines, and free weights at my convenience.  Throw in spin and yoga classes, and access to tennis courts and a pool, and I am set!  Motivation, that could be another issue. But my Sunday walks are often on the beach, along the coast of the beautiful Sea of Cortez.  So again, completing tasks of minutia in paradise is part of the life of the part-time expat!

The Fight of a Lifetime: Landing a Marlin in San José del Cabo

The Fight of a Lifetime: Landing a Marlin in San José del Cabo

Fishing in San José del Cabo: A Dream Destination for Anglers
San José del Cabo is a paradise for anyone who loves sport fishing. Warm waters, plenty of fish, and experienced local captains make this a top destination for anglers from around the world.

Hooking a Marlin: The Thrill Begins
From the moment the line goes tight, the adrenaline kicks in. The reel screams, your arms tense, and just like that—you’re in the fight of your life. Marlins don’t give in easily, and every second becomes a test of strength and focus.

Marlin Jumps: A Heart-Stopping Moment
There’s nothing quite like seeing a marlin break the surface and leap high into the air. It’s breathtaking—watching that huge, powerful fish twist and shimmer in the sunlight. That’s the moment you know you’re hooked too—on the thrill of the chase.

The Fight: Fun, Tiring, and Totally Worth It
Reeling in a marlin is a battle. Your arms burn, your back aches, and it feels like the fish might just win. But with every surge and pull, you dig in deeper. It’s exhausting—but it’s also incredibly rewarding when you start to gain the upper hand.

Meet the Crew: Captain Augustine and Alex Know Where the Fish Are
None of this would’ve happened without the expertise of Captain Augustine and his son Alex—who captained the boat that day. These guys are pros, and they always know how to find the fish. It was awesome having Alex help me and my fishing partner Martin bring this beast in. That teamwork made the day even more special.

Fishing from a Panga: Big Catches, Small Boat
You don’t need a luxury yacht to land a trophy. Their trusty little panga might be small, but it’s mighty. It consistently delivers results, and there’s something about being that close to the water that makes the whole experience feel more real.

The Reward: Pride and Memories That Last
When that marlin finally comes aboard, there’s a moment of quiet satisfaction. Whether you choose to release it or keep it, standing next to a fish like that is a moment of pure pride. It’s what keeps anglers coming back again and again.

Catch and Release: Fishing Responsibly in San José del Cabo
While the thrill of landing a marlin is unbeatable, it’s crucial to practice responsible fishing. Releasing marlin back into the ocean helps preserve fish populations for future generations. If you’re new to catch and release, check out NOAA’s guide on sustainable fishing practices for tips on how to handle and release fish safely. Remember, every marlin you release is a future thrill for another angler.

Final Thoughts: Why You Should Fish in San José del Cabo
If marlin fishing is on your bucket list, make San José del Cabo your next stop. Between the incredible fish, the top-notch captains, and the stunning ocean views, you’re in for an unforgettable adventure.

Part-time Expat-Sunset Over Cabo

Part-time Expat-Sunset Over Cabo

Buenos dias from San Jose del Cabo!  It’s always great when we have good friends visit from the US.  I think that most love Cabo ALMOST as much as we do!  There is nothing better than having friends from home share your second home.  Especially, when they love it! 

As we often do, we decided to go into Cabo San Lucas and take a sunset cruise.  This was courtesy of Cabo Adventures, and they provide an excellent experience that I highly recommend.  We spent 2 ½ hours in the Sea of Cortez/Pacific Ocean looking for whales and watching an amazing sunset over the Pacific.  For those of you familiar with the area, we crossed into the Pacific when we went around the iconic rock arch. We even saw sea lions sunning themselves on the rocky beaches AND swimming in the ocean near our boat, which I have never seen before.  All of this was accompanied by an excellent dinner and open bar. But the best part of this, and any experience we have here, was sharing it with good friends.  We have taken my in-laws and two of our children and their significant others on this trip, and it never gets old enjoying the beauty of a Cabo sunset.  So that is an example of a fun vacation type week, and then there are always catch-up weeks.  You see, some people forget that part of living in a new place, full or part time, is having to “adult” just like when you are at home!  Paying taxes, renewing license plates, cleaning, grocery shopping, doctor and dentist appointments will all be a part of your expat life as well.  But when I can sit and write blogs on my patio office with a view of the ocean, I once again feel blessed to be doing these “ordinary” tasks in an extraordinary setting!  

Exploring San José del Cabo by Side-by-Side: A Baja Off-Road Adventure

Exploring San José del Cabo by Side-by-Side: A Baja Off-Road Adventure

If you’re looking for a unique and unforgettable way to experience the beauty of Baja California Sur, hop into a side-by-side (SxS) and hit the trails around San José del Cabo. With its mix of rugged desert, scenic mountains, and stunning coastline along the Sea of Cortez, this region is made for off-road exploration.

Here’s a look at some of the must-visit spots and what makes riding side-by-sides in this part of Mexico so epic.

East Cape: Desert, Ocean, and Wide-Open Trails

The East Cape is a dream for off-roaders. This stretch of coastline is wild, remote, and absolutely beautiful. As you ride the dirt roads out of San José del Cabo, you’ll pass through dry arroyos, rocky trails, and open desert before reaching the Sea of Cortez.

The views are jaw-dropping—crashing waves on one side, cactus-covered hills on the other. La Fortuna is a great stop, especially if you love surf culture, and Shipwreck Beach is the perfect spot to pause for a beachside snack.


Cabo Pulmo: A Hidden Gem on the Sea

Farther along the coast lies Cabo Pulmo, a national marine park and one of the oldest coral reefs in the Americas. While SxS vehicles aren’t allowed inside the park itself (to protect its fragile ecosystem), the drive there is absolutely worth it.

Cruising toward Cabo Pulmo, you’ll see stretches of untouched coastline and might even spot whales or dolphins offshore during the right season. Bring snorkeling gear if you plan to hop in the water—this place is a marine wonderland. Don’t forget the to visit the last stop before the water Tacos & Beer.

Into the Mountains: Views You’ll Never Forget

For a totally different vibe, head up into the mountains around San José del Cabo. The trails here offer panoramic views where you can see the desert, the mountains, and the sea all in one sweeping glance.

Along the way, you’ll pass by ranches and might encounter free-roaming animals like horses, cows, and donkeys. These winding trails make you feel like you’re discovering a secret side of Baja that few tourists get to see.

Zac’s Bar & Grill: Baja’s Best Pit Stop

Every good off-road trip needs a great place to grab a cold drink and a bite to eat—and Zac’s Bar & Grill is just that. Located in the East Cape community of Zacatitos, this solar-powered, off-the-grid bar is beloved by locals and adventurers alike.

Zac’s Bar link

Order up some shrimp or fish tacos, relax under the shade, and swap trail stories with fellow riders. It’s a must-stop if you’re cruising through the East Cape.

Pro Tips for Your Ride

– **Go Guided**: New to the area? A guided tour is a great way to stay safe and learn about the region’s history, wildlife, and culture.
– **Respect the Environment**: Stick to marked trails to protect local flora and fauna.
– **Pack Smart**: Sunscreen, water, sunglasses, and a bandana or face cover will go a long way in the dusty desert heat.
– **Check Local Rules**: Some areas may have restrictions to protect wildlife or private land.

Final Thoughts

Exploring San José del Cabo by side-by-side is more than just an adrenaline rush—it’s a journey through one of Mexico’s most beautiful and varied landscapes. From the beach to the mountains and everywhere in between, each trail brings a new view and a new adventure.

So strap in, fire up your engine, and let Baja blow your mind. If you need a place to stay don’t forget to consider our casa.